Meeting and succumbing to a conman make me feel ‘victimised’ but the ultimate form of betrayal, to me, is the one where those around me intentionally create a trust bubble meant to deceive.
When there seems to be a sense of camaraderieship, trust will be exchanged and bond will form……but when that turns out to be a manipulated environment – a bubble – a deep sense of betrayal is felt.
I have been through several of those and one would think I should not be so silly to go through another…… well I did.
However, I rather be believing in a person’s genuine care and take the pain when it turned out to be fake, than to become a cynic and a Grinch.
I don’t like the feeling of being used, betrayed, taken for a ride…who does! I wish for such persons’ sake that they will wake up to a world that is better than what they perceived and realised that their method of handling life has not only hurt others but themselves and those precious around them.
Seems like a question that should not have to be asked but ‘why do people betray?’ Very often those who are betrayed do not deserve it -they are just gullible.
Won’t it be better that we treat each other, especially friends, with respect and honour?
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